The Adhder's Guide to Self-Discovery

From the author of the bestselling Autistic’s Guide to Self-Discovery comes a neuro-affirming guide for those living with or only now recognizing their ADHD, helping them to acknowledge their strengths, embrace their identity, and define success on their own terms. Millions of adults with ADHD have spent their lives feeling scattered, inconsistent, or “not disciplined enough.” This isn’t because they lack ability or willpower, but because they live in systems that were not designed for the way their brains work. In The ADHDer’s Guide to Self-Discovery, neurodivergent life coach Sol Smith outlines the latest science and research to offer an empathetic and validating exploration of ADHD as a meaningful way of experiencing the world rather than a deficit to overcome. By reframing ADHD not as a disorder to be managed or optimized away but as a nervous system fundamentally mismatched with modern systems of work, education, and productivity, Smith speaks to adult ADHDers who are exhausted by self-improvement narratives and productivity culture. He helps readers understand why traditional approaches have failed them and how to stop fighting themselves. Instead of offering hacks or routines, the book focuses on identity, helping readers reclaim agency without shame and build lives that work with their brains instead of against them. Blending lived experience and coaching insight, Smith guides readers to: • unmask internalized shame, often caused by a lifetime of “failing” to align with cultural norms and being labeled as lazy, a hothead, or the class clown • redefine success and embrace the creativity, adaptability, curiosity, and deep engagement that often come with ADHD • understand the common pitfalls of urgency-based motivation, time blindness, burnout potential, and more • employ practical life-enrichment tactics, such as gamifying work, energy pacing, strategic avoidance, sensory regulation, and building supportive relationships and community Written for late-diagnosed adults, creatives, students, professionals, therapists, and anyone navigating neurodivergent identity, The ADHDer’s Guide to Self-Discovery speaks to readers who don’t want to be “fixed” but who are searching for a sense of belonging and self-understanding.